Well-dying indicates leaving precious people beautifully and finishing a life comfortably and accepting death naturally just like birth with no regrets. In short, it is going through the end f life well. Now, the number of people who naturally accept well-dying as a final step of well-being keeps increasing. That is, more people think that readiness for death is not something to consider just in old ages but something to seriously think and prepare how to live to die well in earlier ages.
Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart[1756-1791] said, "I thank my God for graciously granting me the opportunity of learning that death is the key which unlocks the door to our true happiness. I never lie down at night without reflecting that - young as I am - I may not live to see another day. " Mozart lived a life that he would not meet well-dying since childhood, and this helped him to become a worldwide known musician. Leonardo Da Vinci[1452-1519] said, "As a well-spent day brings happy sleep, so life well used brings happy death. "Da Vinci expressed that well-dying is connected with well-being. The quotes of the two great men present the importance of getting ready for well-dying since youth. Next is want you can do to prepare well-dying.
It is easy to well-die with no regrets of waiting for death. That is to live a life with the idea that you might die tomorrow, but it does not seem as easy as it sounds. Therefore, the Munsu Journal[MJ] introduces four things yu can practice for well-dying based on the fact many people regret at their last moment, suggested by professional hospice doctors, who observed death of over 1,000 people. The first thing you can do is simply to say “Thank you” to your loved ones as often as possible. There are people who earnestly understand you staying by your side. It is formally not difficult to say the words to them, but most people think precious people do not leave them and they do not really express gratitude.
Next one is to accomplish your dream and do your work with hope. If you do not make it, you will have to do something you do not enjoy with patience and sacrifice only for someone else's life.
Third, you need to be humble ad kind and listen to what other people say. Generally speaking, many people do not realize their fault just because they do not listen carefully to the family, friends, or acquaintances. If do this, you can successfully finish your life. It is also important to be kind and you need to open your heart first. This is one of the things which decide if someone regrets how they lived before death.
Finally, it is very important to meet people you really want to love and continue the relationship for a long time to be remembered. At present, many people met someone they do not really like because they just want to escape from loneness at the moment. This type f love is hard to be remembered. Love is something that you first care about the other person and sacrifice with much of consideration. Somebody you gave unchanging love for a long time will remain as a part of lovely memories when you finish your life. Louisa May Alcott[1832-1888] said, "Love is the only thing that we can carry with us when we go, and it makes the end so easy.
Before finding out what hospice does about well-dying, it is necessary to clearly define what 'hospice' indicates. The term 'hospice' came from the Latin language and it meant a house build near the harbor for the tourists to stop by and relax from their tiring trip in Europe. In the 20th century, there was a social problem when some hospital faculty poorly looked after their terminal patients, whose death was near. Then, one movement happed to offer remedy to the patients and take care of them in the process of death, and people called the movement "hospice." Today, the term is generally used for all programs which provide help mainly with terminal cancer patients in various ways. This is to help hopeless patients until the end to well-die.
No one can imagine their death unless they do not have many days left until the moment of death. However, you can be ready for your death through hospice because you meet dying people and observe someone’s process of finishing life at all times. Then, those who are on their deathbed can get help from hospice and clearly depart this life. As a matter of factor, hospice is needed for well-dying. Over the country, hospices are always looking for volunteer workers. It is strongly suggested to join them because you can get a lot of meaningful lesson living a life if you see the patients and think over what to do not to regret before death.
There is something you need to be careful about. It is that you should not think well-dying and well-being as opposite concepts. Well-dying is what comes at the end of well-being. You do not know when, where, or how you would die, so it is necessary that you always take care of valuable things in the world and do not regret when you meet the ultimate moment of your life.
